Are you in elementary school? Are you in junior high school? Are you in high school? Do you feel awkward? Do people pick on you?
If you answered yes to any of these questions, well just continue reading!
Try not to let anyone get to you! Ignore them! If anyone picks on you it is because they do not feel good about themselves. If you see someone being picked on or sitting by themselves, go & sit by them. What are your problems? What is going on with your life? What is bugging you? Feel free to ask me, e-mail me, ask others on here. Anything you want to share, get off your chest, ask, ANYTHING feel free to come on in & be MY friend! =)
That Girl
I want to edit this blog to add this awesome quote I found online:
There comes a time when you have to stand up and shout:
This is me damn it! I look the way I look, think the way I think, feel the way I feel, love the way I love! I am a whole complex package. Take me... or leave me. Accept me - or walk away! Do not try to make me feel like less of a person, just because I don't fit your idea of who I should be and don't try to change me to fit your mold. If I need to change, I alone will make that decision.
When you are strong enough to love yourself 100%, good and bad - you will be amazed at the opportunities that life presents you.
That Girl
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Very timely and positive message indeed for reaching out! I feel this generation NEEDS role models to look up for some guidance and to learn some respect for themselves. Most are so busy with trying to fit in, that even if they were to be of some help...they can't. For they are TOO busy trying to be expected themselves! So, really? How can one with low self-esteem help another with theirs? You can't. But there always a spot ( I feel) for someone to step to the plate and take on a challenge...one of being a individual and setting the standards! AGAIN GOOD MESSAGE TO REACHING OUT...the youth needs that in this hour.
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I agree with you. Most people think that fitting in is better than being alone or an outcast. They think people will accept them by fitting in their mold and what other people expect them to be. But we are born as originals and if someone does not like you for YOU then you do not need them in your life. Be you, be strong. It is not easy. It is hard. Believe me, I know. It is brutal out there. But I think we can make a difference in today's society. I hope I can help as many people as I can.
ReplyDeletePeople today dn't realize the harshness that kids go thru in school. It can affect them for the rest of their lives if they are picked on that bad.Even want to quit school.If one person would just help them like you said go sit beside them and make conversation it would make their day.
ReplyDeleteI agree. I also hope to be a person that can help someone, at least just one person. I hope kids or anyone can tell me a hot topic that goes on in today's society that can help someone. If any of you know of something to help anyone, a topic, please let me know.
ReplyDeleteokay well i went out with this guy in the beginning of the year
ReplyDelete& this girl said that she tried all last year to get him & was like why can she get him?
ive known this girl since 1st grade and we were KINDA friends but she was still a two faced crap talker.
ANYWAY...
now her and her little clique of friends (probably like 6 of them or so) who think theyre all cool, and all hate me & ALWAYS give me dirty looks and spread rumors. i never did anything to them at all and some of them i dont even know their names.
And ALL OF THEM are in the same row of lockers as I am for P.E.
One time this girl was like..
"Eeew there's a SLUT in the room! And she knows who I'm talking about!" then they all looked at me and started laughing.
then another time she was blocking the stairs and me and my friend were trying to get through and she was like "EXCUSE YOU bitch!"
and then they were spreading rumors saying i liked all these guys which lead to me losing the guy i actually did care about. :( and when they find out i like someone they do anything in their "power" to get them to hate me.
at p.e. i fell when we were running one time and they were all walking together and were like.. "LETS LAUGH" and they all started laughing and calling me a loser and making fun of me.
then today...
this guy was trying ot give me a hug & i was playing around and wouldnt let him and one of them was like.. "Eew Chadd don't hug that *****!"
and they were staring at me with dirty looks and started telling chadd all this crap about me.
AND MANY MANY MORE TIMES SIMILAR TO THESE.
theyre constantly talking crap. and went up to my friend and told her that they were gonna sock me. and im not the kind to get embarrassed nor let things like that get to me. i can cope.
but it is just really getting old and they wont stop & ever since all ive done is ignore them. no dirty looks-crap talking- or anything of that sort. but I am the type that if they lay a finger on me i will kick their *** because I am a strong girl. but enough about fighting, is there just some advice you can maybe give me about this situation?
GIRLS NOWADAYS... haha
thanks, much appreeciated :)
You are doing good by ignoring them. They are just jealous of you and your life it seems like. They feel low about themselves and are trying to make them feel better about themselves by trying to make you feel bad about yourself.
ReplyDeleteIf you just keep ignoring it, living your life and hang out with your real friends & act like what they say and do does not bother you. They will eventually get bored and stop.
Does anyone else have any advice to give mudpiexd?
If so, please give any advice you can.
Did my answer help you mudpiexd?
It has been over 13 years since I graduated from high school.. yet when I read your post, I was reminded of my days.. it is soo important that you don't let yourself be defined just by what others say or think of you..
ReplyDeleteI know Phoenix. Just think back when you were in school or any place & people would try and bring people down. It is hard to just ignore, hard to stand up for yourself, but when you get older and reflect back upon the situations that you were presented with, (being who YOU are and NOT trying to fit the mold of what someone else THINKS YOU should be)...what really matters is be who YOU want to be and do what YOU want to do.
ReplyDeleteYou know, in school´s time I used to have a few friends and the popular sluts used to make bad jokes on me.
ReplyDeleteI used to be very angry but I didn´t care about the bad things they did to me AT ALL, because I knew I was BETTER than them.
And now, yearsss after, I see the EX HOT girls from school walking on the street very UGLY, FAT, and now I AM HOT!!!
LOL!
That´s the best revenge: you know your value and they know you´re better than them.
So basically,
ReplyDeleteI have a best-friend. Let's call her billy bob. :P She's super intelligent, very very pretty, funny, helpful, caring, a bit sport, and yeah..
We've been best-friends since grade 5, and i tell her everything, and she tells me everything.
We're both in 8th grade (the last year of middle school)
and basically, my other best-friend (we'll call her d) left and she's the string that connects us all. Without her, everything goes wrong.
Basically 3 weeks ago, d told me to log in to her facebook and check out her enemy's page. But i got so distracted by her chat with my best-friend billy bob.
Billybob asked "Do you like marzbarz (me)? as in do you like her?"
D replied "Yeah. I love her. She's my best-friend. Why?"
Billybob then said "Oh. Well everyone hates her and she backstabs everyone, and leaves them out, and ditches them. ***** right?"
D then says "Mm.."
And then billybob said "And don't tell her this okay? But i like jam (a guy i've been having awkward moments with)"
and then d finally says "k."
so basically, that proves she's lied to me, since she hasn't told me the truth. ever.
and today, she asked my friend krikri if I told her that billybob liked jam. (coz the day before, i lied to billybob that krikri told me, and yeahh..)
And then my friend krikri, thinks billybob is wierd now.
But, still, billybob pisses me off.
any advice? :(
There seems to be a lot of he said, she said. Just be yourself & if someone is talking about you behind your back or is lying to you and know you they are, just be cordial to them & make some new friends because you do not need people like that in your life hun. Does anyone else have any advice for her? I hope I helped you.
ReplyDeleteIf any of you need anything or need advice just come on here & ask :)
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